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Start by seeking out their thoughts on how to spend the weekend, then proceeding to let them have a say in your upcoming holiday plans. Try your best to include their opinions in discussions as it shows that you appreciate and value their input, no matter how small.<\/p>\n<p>Not only will they feel good about having a voice, it also gives them a sense of satisfaction and fulfillment that will encourage them to make more significant contributions. Besides, these inquisitive little kiddos probably have better and more creative ideas than you do!<\/p>\n<p><strong>Learn from mistakes<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Making mistakes is part and parcel of life. As much as we want to shield them from disappointment, treat it as an opportunity for them to reflect on their mistakes and take responsibility for their own choices. Instead of fixing the problem for them, deconstruct the decision and guide them into realising what went wrong so they will be equipped to make wiser decisions in the future. 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